A Breakup is the worst thing to happen in anyone's life. It feels really bad when someone leaves you in a terrible situation. You will find yourself alone and hopeless. I have seen a few of my friends who went into sleepless nights, worrying about how to get their ex back. It's not that hard if you fully determined, in getting your ex back.
What you need is hope and positive attitude toward getting your ex back. No matter how wrong your situation is, its just matter of backing yourself with hope and determination. Here are few tips on how to get your ex back.
1. When a break up takes place, you first need to sit and think about the problem that causes breakup. It is very important to know the mistakes happened from your part that created the problem in your relationship. It will help you to re-assess the situation well.
2. Give space in your relationship. This is also important if you are looking to get your ex back. You need to give yourself and your ex sometime to set down the things properly. I have seen many people bombarding their ex phones with text messaging or calling them ex continously when their ex are not in the mood to talking or even does not want to see you right now.
3. In the mean time try to improve yourself in the areas which your ex feels you are bad. Also make yourself better in areas where you are good. These all will only happen if you throw out the negativity from your mind.
4. Make yourself busy and motivated. Go out with friends and family and have a fun. This will boost your confidence and help you feel better.
5. Once you have completed all the above steps, now it's time to start working on planning on when to meet with your ex. What to tell and how to have with your ex on your first meeting after breakup. It's important to plan your tactics before meeting with ex otherwise it will ruin your chances to get your ex back.
Source by T. Sam Williams