Adult dating online has many advantages over traditional locations for meeting other singles, specifically the bar scene. While some of the advantages of online adult dating may seem obvious, such as viewing personal photos to determine a level of physical attraction, other advantages may not seem so apparent right away.
Adult dating and adult personals sites have many features these days. One overlooked feature is testimonials or comments that allow people who have corresponded with the person you may have an interest in to say something about this person. A lot of information can be conveyed in only a few short sentences or quips. For instance, a comment may say that the person is funny, fun, sarcastic, witty, adventurous, caring or even a night owl. Just a few simple words from another persons perspective can shed light on another individual’s personality. Use the testimonials found on adult dating sites as a tool to help you gauge whether or not you may be compatible with the person you are interested in before you even contact them.
Every adult dating site allows members to post their photos and to write a profile about themselves. Of course, the importance of a member’s profile is obvious, but lets talk a little about the photos. What is the person doing in the photos? Are they smiling? Frowning? Having fun? Indoors? Outdoors? Are there other people in the photo? Pets? Children? Start by looking at the body language of the person in the photo. You may find clues as to whether or not they have a personality of the more bubbly type or that they are more of the subdued type. Neither one is bad, it’s a matter of your preference. What type of clothes are they wearing? Viewing a person’s sense of fashion can tell you a lot bout what their interests are as well. Are they wearing a t-shirt of their favorite band indicating the type of music they like? How about shirts that have locations of theme parks or recreational areas? This may give you a clue that they like mountain climbing, kayaking or beaches.
The other thing to look for in photos are things in the background. If there are a lot of people in the photo it may indicate that the person is highly sociable. If they are at a bar, it usually means that at the very least the person is a social drinker and does not mind a certain level of night life. If the photo is taken inside an AA meeting, well, chances are they may want to stay away from alcohol. Are they outside or inside? This may indicate that they like the outdoors or that they like the simple life. Again, neither is bad. It’s more a question of compatibility with what you like. A lot of information can be easily overlooked. Don’t forget that information lies in all details.
Perhaps the best feature found on adult dating sites is the chat feature. Of course, the email feature on adult dating sites is handy as well. The chat feature found on online dating sites allows you to instantly begin communication with a person you may be interested in dating. You would be surprised how quickly you can tell whether or not you “click” with this person and whether or not this person is someone you would be interested in dating. There is less pressure when using the chat feature adult dating sites offer when compared to meeting someone at a bar or other location. For one thing, you do not need to scream in the person’s ear several times just to tell them your name. When the atmosphere is too loud to speak normally, the conversation suffers and the meaning of the dialog may be “dummied” down or lost entirely.
Probably the more important aspect of the chat feature on adult dating sites is that of time constraint. Say you are in a bar and someone walks close to you that you want to speak with or introduce yourself to. That person may be on the way back from or to the bathroom. In either case, they are either going to meet back up with their friends or they are in a hurry to relieve themselves (you may not be aware that this is their plight) and, consequently, you only have a matter of seconds to minutes to make an impression. Not only that, how much can you really learn about someone in a highly crowded social environment when you can only have intermittent conversations throughout the night. Don’t forget, people, whether they realize it or not, have a survival shield or bubble that is present when surrounded by a large group comprised mostly of strangers.
By now, you may wondering what the point of the above paragraph is. I will get to it now. When chatting online at an adult dating site, you are in a more relaxed state. Less guarded and more yourself. You are in a comfortable surrounding and usually alone with no distractions. You have a clear path to yourself and your personality and it will show or shine through in your online conversation. Just like they say, “a smile shows over the phone”, so to does a relaxed and accurate representation of yourself over the Internet. Also, you don’t have to say the “right” things in only a matter of seconds that may be contrived in order to make that great first impression. You have plenty of time. If the chat goes well, you can chat again the next day and have several following chat sessions to learn more about each other.
These tools, the importance of which is often overlooked, offered by adult dating sites are invaluable in order to get to know someone. It takes time to get to know someone and these tools provide you with that time.
Here are a couple of adult dating sites that I recommend for you to get started with online adult dating:
I hope you’ve found this information useful. You can find more information at: Adult Dating
Source by Chip Andrews