You are probably going through a difficult time because he has broken up with you. Has life without him lost its meaning? Do you want to know how to get him back? It may not be easy to get him back after he has broken up with you. Maybe he no longer wanted to go on trying to work things out. He possibly just wanted to put an end to your relationship. It would have been easier to work things out whilst he was still with you.
Don’t despair, you can still make him come back even when he has broken up with you. Just make sure in your mind that getting him back is what you really want. Ask yourself if you still want him around and why. The reasons you want him back could be critical to any future you have together.
You have to realize that getting back together may or may not work out. Are you prepared to accept him back and move on with your relationship? Can you relationship ever be the same again?
If you want to make him come back, you must overcome your worst emotional upsets. He will not want to come back to you if you are an emotional wreck. Get your emotions in check before you even think about contacting him. Men often can’t cope with too much emotion, and if you were to contact him whilst you were in an emotional state, he would probably think that he was right to have left you.
Start living life for yourself. Forget what he’s doing. Don’t worry about him, or feel depressed about him leaving. You must show him that he may have broken your relationship, but he hasn’t broken you! Get on with your life. Accept that he has gone and act like you are moving on. Make yourself feel confident and good about yourself, by treating yourself to new clothes, new hairstyle and makeup. Then go out and have fun with your friends. Getting on with your life and leaving him out of it, will give you a far better chance to win him back.
Do not contact him! You must not text him, phone him, email him, or stalk him. He is going to contact you. He is going to be the desperate one, not you. When he is ready, he will get in touch, and when he does, just keep it to the minimum. Let him know that you’ve been having a great time. Avoid talking about your feelings for him, even though you are probably dying to tell him how much you miss him. Keep him thinking that you can take it or leave it. He will be confused and wondering what he has done by leaving you. If he suggests meeting with you, then make sure you are looking amazing. However, don’t let him near you. It will drive him crazy to see you looking so good, but being unattainable. Give him a hug when he’s leaving if it feels right, but be sure you are in control. He will be hooked!
It should be much easier to get him back if you have followed this advice. Don’t rush things. Your relationship wasn’t broken overnight, and it won’t be mended in a day.
- Getting your feelings under control will make it easier to get him back
- Make sure you are living life to the max.
- Look your best in order to feel confident and happy.
- Give him the space and time to realize what he has lost. Then he will become desperate to get you back.
- When he decides he wants you back, play a bit hard to get.
- Show him that you need his respect to get you back, and he will need to work for it.
These are the beginning crucial steps of how to get him back.
Source by Alexander Thoreau