Young children are full of dreams of what they will do, be, see when they grow up. As adults most of us have given up the habit of having big dreams. Or if we do, never following through with them. Why do so many people let their dreams die unlived?
One reason is the negative cynical attitudes of other people. These people are not enemies they are friends, even family members. If our friends are negative towards our dreams or aspirations -our friends can kill our dreams.
A person gets excited about the possibility of a new business opportunity or a new idea. They see the opportunity to make money, do more meaningful work, improve their financial future, rise to a personal challenge, change their lifestyle. They get excited about this stimulating new prospect. But then they tell their neighbor about it over the back fence one evening. The neighbor gets a smirk, a laugh that says, "You can not do that", a foot long list of all the problems and obstacles and fifty reasons why they will never make it and are better off to stay where they are.
The person's enthusiasm disintegrates. They lose all their excitement and self-confidence and begin to think of all the reasons why they can not make it in a work at home business, rather than the reasons that they can succeed in their new investment opportunity. They have let the negative attitude of someone else become more powerful than their belief in their dream of financial independence and more time with the family.
Friends can do more damage than a dozen enemies. Remember, the easiest thing to find on earth is someone to tell you all the things you can not be. Do not listen to them. Often they have the best intentions. They do not want you to be hurt or lose money. Often those that try to steal your dreams are very conservative and have achieved little in their own lives.
It is always the person who has never made $ 40,000 a year, who knows all the reasons why you can not make $ 100,000. If you have a dream, give it a chance to happen. Do not let your sister-in-law, the plumber or the person in the next office, rob you of that faith in yourself and your new home based business. It is that belief in your dream that makes it into a reality. Do not let the person who lives on the couch and watches TV every night tell you how futile life is.
Do not take on other people's negative attitudes. Surround yourself with positive people. Read inspiring authors. A few suggestions are Susan Jeffers, Paul Hanna, Anthony Robbins and Jim Rohn. Spend at least half an hour a day nourishing your dream. Believe in yourself and you will make your dreams a reality.
If you have that flame of a dream deep down inside you somewhere, do something about it. And do not let anyone else blow it out. Believe you can, and you will find you can. TRY! You will be surprised at how many good things can happen to you.
Source by Cheryl Haining