You need tips to get your wife back. You keep searching for answers, but do not know where to start. This article will help you to get your emotions in check, so you will have a much better chance of getting her back, and soon!
Simply Be Nice
The longer couples are married, the more they seem to take each other for granted. When we are together for a long time, we forget to be nice to each other. If this was a factor in your break up, then show her that you have realized what happened. You did not mean it, but she does not know that. She may think that you have changed, as we all do over time, and that you are not the man she married.
Accidentally run into her at a store that she frequents, and go out of your way to tell her how nice she looks, or anything you can think of to show her that you're trying. You CAN be thoughtful and nice.
If she ignores you at first, do not get upset. Remember that you have broken up. She is still dealing with hurt, just as you are. Show her that you are still the man she once married.
Do not Assume Things
Emotions run high when a couple breaks up. You may be driving yourself crazy trying to think of why she left. Assuming you know the answer to that can be very dangerous. Never, ever guess. Her reason for leaving was her decision. What you have to do now is find a way to convince her that she made the wrong decision by leaving, and that the two of you can be a happy couple again.
Nice and Thoughtful are two different things
Being nice is like saying please and thank you. Being THOUGHTFUL, however, means that you are putting thought into something before you do it. To a woman especially, those two words have totally different meanings.
Did you know that a woman would probably pick a hand-written note (by you, of course) note over a store bought card? Do you know why?
Anyone can walk into a store and buy a card. To take the time and write a note, or make a card, you are showing her that you want to invest time in her – quality time.
Even though she may not let on, she IS not everything you're doing. When she's ready, she will come back to you. And this time, you'll both be happy!
Source by Sabrina Werles