Do you find yourself lost for words when it comes to talking to girls? Do you get so embarrassed and tongue tied that all your words come out wrong and you end up feeling like an idiot? If you want some tips on how to gain the confidence to talk to girls, read on.
I used to be just like you, I could never find the right words to say to a girl. I would go out with my mates to a club or a pub and would see some hot girl I really fancied but would rarely have the front to go up and talk to her. On the odd occasion when my mates persuaded me to go over and chat to a girl, I would usually work myself up into such a state that I could never say the right thing or I would be too drunk and would make a complete fool of myself.
Since then I have learnt a lot about girls and how to talk to them, so follow the tips below and soon you too will have the confidence to talk to girls and get any girl you want.
Adopt A Casual Attitude
The best approach is to adopt a casual attitude. Look, there are thousands of girls in the world and if you get the brush off from one girl, well there are loads and loads more girl out there. It won’t be the end of the world. Just get over it and move on.
Read Her Body Language
When you are talking to a girl, learn to read her body language. If she is leaning slightly towards you, this is a good sign. If she is paying close attention to you and especially if her pupils are slightly dilated that is also a good sign that she is interested in you.
Have A Sense of Humour
Most girls love a guy that makes them laugh. This doesn’t mean you should come out with corny jokes and one liners. That just doesn’t work. Just adopt a playful attitude. Tease her a bit but in a nice way. Misinterpret what she says and pretend you think she is hitting on you. She won’t be expecting that and you will stand out from all the other guys she has known.
Source by James R Bond